Were We Born With Pedophilia? Part 1

Regardless of whether pedophilia is nature, nurture, or (most likely) a complex mix of the two, God’s moral standard always applies. Any form of sexual activity involving a child is wrong. We cannot just permanently stop experiencing these internal temptations by our own will. But we can surrender them to God every day, and trust that he will be faithful to walk with us and uphold us. We are always morally responsible before God and man for what we do.

Baggage or Biography?

“Yeah, He’s Got Baggage.” Recently I was talking to a friend about some of the ongoing difficulties my past sins have caused, and how I see myself. He used an interesting term to frame what I was doing: holding on to emotional and spiritual baggage. And baggage is an interesting description. It’s something you drag along behind you, and if … Read more

Our Firm Foundation

Our Foundation “How firm a foundation, ye saints of the Lord, is laid for your faith in His excellent Word! What more can He say, than to you He hath said? To you, who for refuge, to Jesus hath fled.” I have warm memories of hearing this old hymn on the radio many evenings when I was a young child. … Read more

Millstones

“If anyone causes one of these little ones – those who believe in me – to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea. Woe to the world because of the things that cause people to stumble! Such things must come, but … Read more

Coping With Pedophilia And Loss

Living with pedophilia usually comes with significant losses; no surprise there. But unlike most other situations of loss, it can be very difficult to communicate to anyone what we’ve lost, or why we need to grieve. I mean, just imagine getting together with your friends at church or the bar and saying “I’m very sad because of being a pedophile. … Read more

Why I Joined This Ministry

The Insurmountable Thing I remember the first time I found the website Christian Pedophile, late Spring 2019. I was on a lunch break at work, and simply Googled the words “christian pedophile.” I needed answers, and I needed help. I had not been doing very well at the time; I struggled with a porn addiction that seemed to come and … Read more

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