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We are Christians who also happen to be pedophiles. We have an unwanted and involuntary attraction to children, but we have decided to obey Christ and not act according to those feelings. In no way do we condone sexual involvement with children. It is inherently harmful and is not what God wants for our sexuality.

We are God's kids too, and we know that he loves us. God isn't stumped by pedophilia. He's able to lead us to the victory Jesus won on the cross. He can bless us, and make our lives wonderful stories.

Finding a Way Blog

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